When I say home, I mean our bodies. After experiencing trauma, our minds change and the connection between our minds and bodies may be broken. We may no longer feel safe in our own bodies.
So what is trauma. I could give you the textbook definition of trauma that is listed in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). Let’s be real, you can just look that up. Plus, I view trauma in a broader way than a checklist of criterion.
One of the reasons I love art so much is because of different peoples’ interpretations. Hearing peoples’ experiences of a specific art piece is fascinating, especially when their experience may be different
than my own.
When I saw this art piece, I had already learned about Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and was one EFT externship in. Naturally, this piece reaffirmed everything I learned about humans and connection,
through the lens of EFT.
For many people, when they hear the word “therapist” or “therapy,” a specific image may come to mind: an intimidating stern man with a clipboard, with the patient lying on a big leather couch being psychoanalyzed.
I am here to tell you that this is not the case. Therapy can look so many different ways, and it all depends on the client and what works for them. The most important aspect of therapy is the alliance between therapist and client; without that vital connection, there would be no movement or growth. I encourage everyone to find a therapist that they vibe well with because it makes all the difference.
I was asked today, “Who is Ida Fariba and what does she do?” and I was shocked to discover that I wasn’t exactly sure.
I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, and I am qualified to work with all individuals, couples, and families. Yet, that is not exactly who I want to work with.
I want to work with adult individuals and couples who have lost their way or experienced trauma.